Delicate or bold, in gold, silver or pearls, the choker necklace is one of the most sought-after pieces of jewelry right now. Worn alone for a minimalist touch or layered with other chains, it shows off your neck and neckline in one simple move. Here's our complete guide to choosing, wearing and caring for your choker.
What is a choker necklace?
A choker (called ras de cou in French, also known as a collar necklace or neck collar) is a short necklace worn at the base of the neck, close to the skin. That sets it apart from the "princess" necklace, which falls on the collarbones, and from the long necklace, which falls below the bust.
There are two main families of chokers:
- the fitted choker, which hugs the neck (ribbon, velvet, cord, tight chain);
- the choker chain, a bit looser, which sits just above the collarbones.
How long should a choker necklace be?
A women's choker generally measures between 35 and 40 cm (14 and 16 in). Under 35 cm (14 in), it's more of a fitted choker; beyond 42-45 cm (16.5-17.7 in), the necklace falls onto the collarbones.
To find your size, measure your neck with a soft measuring tape, then add:
- 1 to 2 cm (0.5 to 1 in) for a snug choker;
- 5 to 8 cm (2 to 3 in) for a comfortable choker chain.
A style with an extender chain (often 5 cm / 2 in) is the safest choice: it adapts to your body type and to the neckline of your outfit. To compare all necklace lengths, see our guide how to choose a women's necklace.
The different styles of women's chokers
The pearl choker necklace
A timeless classic of elegance, the pearl choker necklace is making a big comeback, as a single strand or mixed with a gold chain. It lights up the face and works at the office as well as at night. It's also one of the most popular necklaces for weddings, for brides and guests alike.
The gold choker
The gold choker is the easiest to wear every day: a dainty chain, a mariner chain, a snake chain or a small pendant is all it takes to warm up your complexion. In solid gold, it's an investment; in gold-plated or gold-tone stainless steel, you get the same look for a much gentler budget.
The silver choker
Cooler and more graphic, the silver choker necklace pairs perfectly with blues, grays and blacks. It's also great for stacking with other silver jewelry.
The rhinestone or cubic zirconia choker
For special occasions, a choker set with rhinestones or cubic zirconia adds a sparkling touch reminiscent of diamonds, without the price tag.
The cord or velvet choker
The cord choker necklace or black velvet choker plays up a boho or rock vibe. It's the most laid-back version of the choker, perfect for summer.
The men's choker necklace
Chokers aren't just for women: for men, they mostly come as a short chain in steel, a chunky chain or natural beads.
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How to wear a choker necklace
The choker is especially flattering with:
- a V-neck or boat neck, which frames the neck and shows off the piece;
- an open shirt, for a chic, relaxed look;
- a spaghetti-strap top or a strapless dress, which leave all the attention on the necklace;
- hair pulled back (bun, ponytail) so it doesn't get hidden.
With a turtleneck or high neck, opt for a long necklace instead, like a long mariner chain necklace.
Layering a choker with other necklaces
The choker is the perfect foundation for a great layered look: it forms the first layer. Pair it with a 45 cm (17.7 in) chain, then with a longer necklace or a Y necklace, keeping at least 5 cm (2 in) between each layer so they don't tangle. Stick to one metal color for a cohesive look. All our tips are in our article how to layer jewelry like a pro.
Which material should you choose for your choker?
Worn directly against the skin, a choker is exposed to sweat, perfume and lotions, so the material matters a lot.
- Stainless steel is water-resistant, doesn't rust and is ideal for everyday wear;
- gold-plated jewelry offers the shine of gold at an affordable price, as long as you take care of it;
- sterling silver (925) is loved for its brilliance, but can tarnish over time;
- solid gold (18K) never tarnishes, but is far more expensive.
For a detailed comparison, read our article sterling silver, gold-plated, solid gold: what's the difference?
Caring for your choker necklace
- put on your jewelry after perfume, lotion and makeup;
- take it off to sleep, work out or go to the pool;
- wipe it with a soft cloth after wearing it;
- store it flat or hanging, separate from your other jewelry, to avoid scratches and knots.
Find all our tips in our guide to caring for your jewelry every day.
Frequently asked questions about choker necklaces
Is it called a choker or a collar necklace?
Both terms refer to the same type of jewelry and are commonly used. In French, it's called a "ras de cou" or "ras du cou"; you may also see "neck collar" or "torque" for rigid styles.
What's the difference between a fitted choker and a choker chain?
A fitted choker is very snug and hugs the neck. In the broader sense, "choker" refers to any short necklace worn at the base of the neck, including slightly looser chains.
Does a choker suit every body type?
Yes, as long as you choose the right length. If you have a short neck, opt for a dainty chain that's a little longer (40-42 cm / 16-16.5 in) rather than a very tight choker, and pair it with a V-neck.
Which choker should you wear to a wedding?
Pearls and cubic zirconia styles are the most popular: they go with a white gown as well as a guest outfit, and look elegant in photos.
Ready to find your next piece? Browse our selection of women's necklaces and get inspired. Every order is shipped with care from Aix-en-Provence, France, with free shipping to the USA.
